This is weird, don't you think? I had to get a shot of this! The writing at the top is in Thai!Wednesday, November 12, 2008
A tour of our home
Why do we Wai?
The Thai's wai to be polite or to show respect so it's like a man tipping his hat or any of us nodding our head at someone when we pass, kind of a polite hello.
Maddie and Nolan being polite and respectful along with Mr. Ronald. Nolan is being polite in his wai, hands against the chest and nose to index finger while Maddie is being respectful, hands away from the chest moving more toward the forehead. This picture was taken in April of 2008 when we brought both the kids to Thailand for their second visit.
Here's a funny story-luckily it was funny and not a disaster! I realized that you should be careful when saying "Sawasdee, ka" (hello) to little children--especially those riding bikes at the time! I didn't realize that children should wai to an adult that says hello to them! Poor little girl! She almost crashed! I felt so bad! She immediately let go of the handlebars and attempted to wai but she lost control and the bike fell over! She wai'd first, very respectfully, and then gathered up her bike and went on her way! I will think it out before I say hello to a little one again! :)
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Laundry Day
So, I'll just finish up with the plumbing from yesterday, I just had a few more things to share about that...
I never in my wildest dreams thought I would pray to God for a good toilet. I have caught myself praying about this, I've said to God, "you are laughing about this aren't you!" :) I'm sure He has more significant issues than whether I will have a modern regular, clean bathroom with toilet paper and soap!
Another significant difference in that Thai's don't usually have kitchens in their homes. They most likely have a "Thai Kitchen" which means it's an outside kitchen where you have a gas grill, etc. So it's like bbqing all the time. Our place has a small indoor kitchen-type place which we have made into a pretty workable kitchen. There is no stove/oven so we had to buy a couple of electric grills and cookers, rice cooker, microwave, shelves and small tables for some counter space. Thai's usually go out to eat so they don't need kitchens but Jeff loves to cook and it makes him feel "normal" to cook every night and I love to help, it's really our favorite time of day when we make a meal together.
So today is laundry day. Laundry is very different here. People might have a washer that is outside but it would be rare for anyone to have a dryer since the sun works really well for that. Most people have a laundry service so that's what we do for most things. They come to your house and pick everything up and then bring it back to you 2 or 3 days later! It's great! 50 pieces for 600 baht (about $17USD). We will probably have 50 pieces every 2 to 4 weeks so it's pretty cheap. For all the little or emergency things I have a little tiny washer that came free when we bought one of our tvs! It sits outside in the "garage" (I'll explain that below!) Jeff calls it a washer for dolls because it is so tiny! I will take a picture of it when I get some batteries. Anyway, before we got that washer we had to do the small stuff by hand like almost all Thai's do ALL their laundry. I have tendonitis in my elbow and it's really hard to wash my hair let alone wash a bunch of clothes by hand and wring them out, etc. So I LOVE my little doll washer! It has a spin dryer on it so it gets the clothes almost half way dry before I hang them up outside. I can't believe I am washing clothes like this but now I am getting used to it, every Thursday is laundry day! We just hang our undies and socks out like everyone else, it's hilarious!
OK, the "garage". Another thing that is very different here. Your garage is like a carport that is all gated in. We have to close and lock the gate every night and unlock and open it every morning to get in and out with the car because the streets are very small and anyway, you shouldn't leave your car out or it will very like not be there in the morning--that's what everyone tells us--we feel very safe here and think everyone is paranoid but I'm sure if we ever get anything stolen, we will say the same thing. So, we lock everything up tight every night like they tell us. Our house is a 4 story townhome, about 2500 sf. 3 bedrooms, 4 bathrooms (one on each floor) and it's about $750USD per month! Nice! We really love it here, it's got 24hours security, gated community so it's really safe, and all the neighbors are really nice. Oh yeah, another thing that's different here, the zoning laws, you can have a business in your home, in fact, it's very common. So a lot of our neighbors are businesses; some also live there, some don't. We have a bioscience business across the street, a label business, a film studio, a bunch of other businesses in the neighborhood, it's weird but we are now used to it.
Something that is really great about Thailand is THE FOOD!!!!!!!!! I have not tasted any Thai food that I haven't liked. We also have no problem finding American foods to cook at home. We go to Foodland and Tesco and can find anything that we need really. 7/11 is everywhere and we have found a good coffee place. We rarely buy hot coffee when we go out because it is so incredibly hot here! We drink a lot of ice-blended coffee or ice-coffee. We bought a coffee-maker for the house and have hot coffee every morning though, just like in America. Thai's don't drink coffee so it's hard to find a coffee-maker but we found one, I think we paid close to $100USD for it, ouch! But it was worth it. Since the Thai's don't drink coffee, about all you can find in the restaurants or stores is Nescafe, yech! I guess they have no idea now horrible it is! But, back to the food, Thai food is great and cheap. Mint has been teaching us to order in restaurants and we are doing really well now.
Mint is our personal assistant. We were really having a hard time getting settled so we hired her and she has been a life saver! She started out PT but immediately we hired her on as our FT personal assistant and admin person. She has been translating for us and we get so much more done with her by our side! Today we started our formal Thai lessons here at the house. We have Ruby now to teach us Thai! Maddie is learning in school, she takes about 6 or 7 hours per week at school.
Speaking of Maddie, she started playing basketball on the school team yesterday. She was asked to join the high school team. They had their first game yesterday and won, Maddie had almost all the points! They won 31, 15. They are excited to have Maddie on the team! :) She is also playing on the badminton club! Remember that game? It's really popular here and she enjoys playing it with her friends.
Well, I will blog more tomorrow!
Jan
I never in my wildest dreams thought I would pray to God for a good toilet. I have caught myself praying about this, I've said to God, "you are laughing about this aren't you!" :) I'm sure He has more significant issues than whether I will have a modern regular, clean bathroom with toilet paper and soap!
Another significant difference in that Thai's don't usually have kitchens in their homes. They most likely have a "Thai Kitchen" which means it's an outside kitchen where you have a gas grill, etc. So it's like bbqing all the time. Our place has a small indoor kitchen-type place which we have made into a pretty workable kitchen. There is no stove/oven so we had to buy a couple of electric grills and cookers, rice cooker, microwave, shelves and small tables for some counter space. Thai's usually go out to eat so they don't need kitchens but Jeff loves to cook and it makes him feel "normal" to cook every night and I love to help, it's really our favorite time of day when we make a meal together.
So today is laundry day. Laundry is very different here. People might have a washer that is outside but it would be rare for anyone to have a dryer since the sun works really well for that. Most people have a laundry service so that's what we do for most things. They come to your house and pick everything up and then bring it back to you 2 or 3 days later! It's great! 50 pieces for 600 baht (about $17USD). We will probably have 50 pieces every 2 to 4 weeks so it's pretty cheap. For all the little or emergency things I have a little tiny washer that came free when we bought one of our tvs! It sits outside in the "garage" (I'll explain that below!) Jeff calls it a washer for dolls because it is so tiny! I will take a picture of it when I get some batteries. Anyway, before we got that washer we had to do the small stuff by hand like almost all Thai's do ALL their laundry. I have tendonitis in my elbow and it's really hard to wash my hair let alone wash a bunch of clothes by hand and wring them out, etc. So I LOVE my little doll washer! It has a spin dryer on it so it gets the clothes almost half way dry before I hang them up outside. I can't believe I am washing clothes like this but now I am getting used to it, every Thursday is laundry day! We just hang our undies and socks out like everyone else, it's hilarious!
OK, the "garage". Another thing that is very different here. Your garage is like a carport that is all gated in. We have to close and lock the gate every night and unlock and open it every morning to get in and out with the car because the streets are very small and anyway, you shouldn't leave your car out or it will very like not be there in the morning--that's what everyone tells us--we feel very safe here and think everyone is paranoid but I'm sure if we ever get anything stolen, we will say the same thing. So, we lock everything up tight every night like they tell us. Our house is a 4 story townhome, about 2500 sf. 3 bedrooms, 4 bathrooms (one on each floor) and it's about $750USD per month! Nice! We really love it here, it's got 24hours security, gated community so it's really safe, and all the neighbors are really nice. Oh yeah, another thing that's different here, the zoning laws, you can have a business in your home, in fact, it's very common. So a lot of our neighbors are businesses; some also live there, some don't. We have a bioscience business across the street, a label business, a film studio, a bunch of other businesses in the neighborhood, it's weird but we are now used to it.
Something that is really great about Thailand is THE FOOD!!!!!!!!! I have not tasted any Thai food that I haven't liked. We also have no problem finding American foods to cook at home. We go to Foodland and Tesco and can find anything that we need really. 7/11 is everywhere and we have found a good coffee place. We rarely buy hot coffee when we go out because it is so incredibly hot here! We drink a lot of ice-blended coffee or ice-coffee. We bought a coffee-maker for the house and have hot coffee every morning though, just like in America. Thai's don't drink coffee so it's hard to find a coffee-maker but we found one, I think we paid close to $100USD for it, ouch! But it was worth it. Since the Thai's don't drink coffee, about all you can find in the restaurants or stores is Nescafe, yech! I guess they have no idea now horrible it is! But, back to the food, Thai food is great and cheap. Mint has been teaching us to order in restaurants and we are doing really well now.
Mint is our personal assistant. We were really having a hard time getting settled so we hired her and she has been a life saver! She started out PT but immediately we hired her on as our FT personal assistant and admin person. She has been translating for us and we get so much more done with her by our side! Today we started our formal Thai lessons here at the house. We have Ruby now to teach us Thai! Maddie is learning in school, she takes about 6 or 7 hours per week at school.
Speaking of Maddie, she started playing basketball on the school team yesterday. She was asked to join the high school team. They had their first game yesterday and won, Maddie had almost all the points! They won 31, 15. They are excited to have Maddie on the team! :) She is also playing on the badminton club! Remember that game? It's really popular here and she enjoys playing it with her friends.
Well, I will blog more tomorrow!
Jan
Let's Talk About Plumbing
OK, there are good things about living here and there are some challenges, plumbing is one of the challenges! One of the first things you will notice about an asian country is that it smells "different" than America. Wow, I'm having trouble even knowing where to begin on this subject so let's start from the beginning...
Long ago, all the bathrooms in Asia pretty much looked like this...
http://www.wikihow.com/Image:China_Toilet-1_611.jpg
Yes, the link says China, but it's like this all over Asia (except this is a REALLY clean one! Picture it about 100 times filthier than this one!)
Now, I don't know about you but these bathroom confuse and frighten me. I don't even know what to do when I am faced with this and I have tennies and jeans on! Needless to say, when you know you are going to be in an old government building for the day or you may be in the middle of nowhere for awhile, you may have to face this situation!
Even now, when I know I will have a regular style toilet, you may not get toilet paper! So I always carry kleenex or tp in my bag with me! Don't worry, we have nice, new, regular style toilets in our house. Oh yeah, another thing, there is always the sprayer hose next to the toilet, even the regular toilets, um, I don't get it...yuck! I guess it's a Asia/European thing because they have them all over Europe too! We have 4 bathroom in our home and they all have these sprayers, we don't use them...
So anyway, back to the point, the quality of ANYTHING in Thailand is poor, we are having to learn patience in EVERY area. Mint, our personal assistant, along with anyone else we try to get sympathy from, says "you will just have to get rid of your expectations, or you will always be unhappy". They are right. But we pride ourselves in being really efficient, productive people! We can get so much done! We are going to change Thailand! Yeah, right...I think Thailand will change us...Everyone keeps telling us we need to relax, don't move so fast! Are you kidding me! This is a whole new world! :)
So, the quality of everything is poor, and plumbing is no exception. The smell in the bathrooms a couple of times a day, for some reason we cannot figure out, is really bad. We thought it was because the pipes are in an L shape with no trap to capture water that blocks the smelly stuff from coming out so we changed all the pipes to the kind with the trap. Nope, that wasn't it. The plumber has been out 5 times now to fix leaks and now our shower drain is clogged on the 4th floor and we noticed that the toilets are not bolted to the floor and you can actually move them around! We asked the plumber to fix them and he just caulked around them. We said they probably need to be bolted and then caulked. He says, if this doesn't work then he will think about bolting them down! Yikes!
I have to go help with dinner. I will blog more tomorrow!
Long ago, all the bathrooms in Asia pretty much looked like this...
http://www.wikihow.com/Image:China_Toilet-1_611.jpg
Yes, the link says China, but it's like this all over Asia (except this is a REALLY clean one! Picture it about 100 times filthier than this one!)
Now, I don't know about you but these bathroom confuse and frighten me. I don't even know what to do when I am faced with this and I have tennies and jeans on! Needless to say, when you know you are going to be in an old government building for the day or you may be in the middle of nowhere for awhile, you may have to face this situation!
Even now, when I know I will have a regular style toilet, you may not get toilet paper! So I always carry kleenex or tp in my bag with me! Don't worry, we have nice, new, regular style toilets in our house. Oh yeah, another thing, there is always the sprayer hose next to the toilet, even the regular toilets, um, I don't get it...yuck! I guess it's a Asia/European thing because they have them all over Europe too! We have 4 bathroom in our home and they all have these sprayers, we don't use them...
So anyway, back to the point, the quality of ANYTHING in Thailand is poor, we are having to learn patience in EVERY area. Mint, our personal assistant, along with anyone else we try to get sympathy from, says "you will just have to get rid of your expectations, or you will always be unhappy". They are right. But we pride ourselves in being really efficient, productive people! We can get so much done! We are going to change Thailand! Yeah, right...I think Thailand will change us...Everyone keeps telling us we need to relax, don't move so fast! Are you kidding me! This is a whole new world! :)
So, the quality of everything is poor, and plumbing is no exception. The smell in the bathrooms a couple of times a day, for some reason we cannot figure out, is really bad. We thought it was because the pipes are in an L shape with no trap to capture water that blocks the smelly stuff from coming out so we changed all the pipes to the kind with the trap. Nope, that wasn't it. The plumber has been out 5 times now to fix leaks and now our shower drain is clogged on the 4th floor and we noticed that the toilets are not bolted to the floor and you can actually move them around! We asked the plumber to fix them and he just caulked around them. We said they probably need to be bolted and then caulked. He says, if this doesn't work then he will think about bolting them down! Yikes!
I have to go help with dinner. I will blog more tomorrow!
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Snow Town

They have a place at Dreamworld called Snowtown where they give you coats and boots and you can go sledding! It's very different for Thai's to feel cold air outside because they have air con (that's what we call air-conditioning) everywhere. When our friends' son visits other countries where it's cool outside he calls it "air con outside". :) Very cute and very true. I totally understand what he means now!
Elephants at Dreamland

Dreamland is a theme park in Bangkok. It has roller coasters like Top Gun and Space Mountain and water rides like Splash Mountain and Roaring Rapids. You can ride an elephant if you like too. We have ridden them and even pass them in the streets while motorbiking in the very rural areas of Thailand. One time, we had the kids with is on the island of Phuket and we were staying in a very nice hotel when what comes walking through the lobby? An elephant! He was alone and walked through a doorway marked "employees". It was one of the weirdest things I have ever seen! I had never seen elephants in the streets of Bangkok until we moved here last month. We were sitting in traffic on a very busy street when all of a sudden an elephant came walking right past us and cut in front of the front of our car! It was unbelievable! Only in Bangkok...
This is Maddie's German Friend, Jorge

Maddie met Jorge on a previous trip to Thailand in April. They hit it off right away and remain good friends. He is amazing to me because he plays the piano beautifully by ear (you would love him mom!) and even more impressive is that he moved here from Germany last year, he did not know any English or Thai and had to start school not being able to communicate at all! Now he speaks fluent English, Thai and, of course, German, and some Spanish and Chinese too! Wow! These kids here are amazing!
It's been a year, and what a year it has been!
Hi all, I can't believe it's been a year since I last posted. A lot has happened in one year. As, hopefully, all of you know by now, Jeff, Maddie and I moved to Thailand in late September. We have been here a little over a month. I have so much I want to share so I had to start the blog again!
We live in a northeastern suburb of Bangkok. Maddie is attending an International School and is really enjoying it! Everyone has been really nice and friendly. She is the only American there, there are some Thai kids that have American fathers but no full Americans. Although, one of her Thai friends did live in Los Angeles for 3 years and just returned to Thailand about 6 months ago so they have a lot to talk about.
I am going to start off with some pictures we've taken recently and work backwards with the pictures we have taken over the last 6 years! This should be an interesting project! But I really feel like I'd like to share our travels with you since I haven't been real good about it in the past.
Save my blog on your favorites and check in periodically to see what we have been up to! Email us whenever possible. I always love to hear from everyone but especially now that we are half way around the world, it is extra special when I get an email from family and friends!
Love to you all, Jan
We live in a northeastern suburb of Bangkok. Maddie is attending an International School and is really enjoying it! Everyone has been really nice and friendly. She is the only American there, there are some Thai kids that have American fathers but no full Americans. Although, one of her Thai friends did live in Los Angeles for 3 years and just returned to Thailand about 6 months ago so they have a lot to talk about.
I am going to start off with some pictures we've taken recently and work backwards with the pictures we have taken over the last 6 years! This should be an interesting project! But I really feel like I'd like to share our travels with you since I haven't been real good about it in the past.
Save my blog on your favorites and check in periodically to see what we have been up to! Email us whenever possible. I always love to hear from everyone but especially now that we are half way around the world, it is extra special when I get an email from family and friends!
Love to you all, Jan
Sunday, November 25, 2007
A visit from the Ramirez Family!
Bye Gramma C!
Here's a picture Chesta took of Jeff and I at the San Diego airport before she left. Jeff and I are taking off this week for Thailand. I will try to keep up the blog while we are traveling so you can see what we are up to. We are going to be relaxing on the beach in Koh Samui for the first few days. I have been learning Thai and can't wait to try it out this time. Love to you all, Jan.Thanksgiving Table



I've been reading Martha Stewart again...what do you think? :) Check Brittani's blog at www.rfamily-ourkids.blogspot.com for more pictures of our Thanksgiving, Gramma's visit, etc. Her blog is much better and she posts a lot more frequently than I have. I'll try to do better! Brittani is my inspiration! :)Thanksgiving Day
Gramma Chesta visits Brittani
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